The time right after a break up can be very confusing.
You want your ex back but don't know how to go about it.
Your emotions are running so high it's hard to think logically.
Usually what you are most tempted to do right after a breakup are the worst actions you can take.
For example, you may want to constantly call your ex to beg them to take you back.
Not a good idea! Or you may want to just wallow in your pain and cry all the time.
This is also not in your best interests.
Bugging your ex with constant phone calls or text messages will only drive them away.
And being an emotional mess is also a turn off for your ex.
Here are three steps to take so that you can learn how to get back together with your ex.
1 - Acknowledge and accept the fact that you are broken up.
Denying it has happened or not dealing with it will only prolong your pain.
Let your ex know that you are dealing with things and taking the steps to move on.
This gives both you and your ex time to think in peace.
Also this relieves a lot of the tension your ex may have about your feelings.
2 - Take a communications break.
This may not seem to make sense at first but really you want your ex to have a chance to miss you.
Also this gives them time to really think about your relationship and how much it means to them.
3 - Prepare for your first post break up meeting.
Once steps one and two have been done start looking ahead to when you'll first meet up with your ex.
Think about where and when you should meet and what you want to say.
Getting together this way will give you the information you need to know if you and your ex have a good chance of getting back together or not.
Just after a break up you are likely to not be thinking very clearly.
Use these three steps to get past this emotionally confusing time.
These three steps will surely help you get back together with your ex.