Believe it or not, there is hope! An important secret on how to make your ex boyfriend want you back is to first start thinking more like he does.
Those well meaning talks and advice from your girlfriends is great for unloading emotions, but take any action steps they give you with a grain of salt.
Unless you start putting yourself in your ex boyfriends shoes, you'll find yourself in a big uphill battle to make any progress getting him back.
The thing to remember is the relationship mentality and motivation behind a breakup or getting back together is drastically different for men and women.
The ideas you may have running through your mind about how to make your ex boyfriend want you back are driven by a completely different mentality and aren't likely to match up with his mindset.
So, is it possible to turn things around and start thinking like a man? Sure.
Understanding more about how he thinks and how to make him desire you more never has anything to do with things like learning a new bedroom trick from a magazine.
The secret is in realizing that deep down, men want to be possessed and made to feel good, which at it's core is driven by their ego.
Using the power you have as a woman to seduce is your greatest asset in getting a guy back in your arms.
However, it can all go wrong in a heartbeat if you let your instinct take over after a breakup and fall into desperation mode.
One you take on a different perspective and leverage a man's ego, you'll start making some real progress on getting him to want you back.