If the one and only man for you is now showing you interest after a fight or break up you have work to do.
Do you see signs he may want to go out and spend time together, is your ex flirting with you again? if so it is okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping in with both feet, be cool.
It is common for an ex to seem interested.
But even if your interested in him as well, you should not jump back to eagerly.
The best thing you can do is to play hard to get (just a bit), which is what will make your ex stand up and take notice to what he once had.
If you simply jump into things eagerly, then you may find your ex pushing you back again.
In fact, your ex may give indications that he or she wants you back, just because you are playing hard to get.
This shakes things up a bit and creates a excitement that has probably been long gone.
Usually after a break up there is a natural void which leads to you missing one another or longing to get back together.
To be alone after a relationship feels a bit off.
Your ex is going to miss the comfort of the relationship no matter what, because of the times you shared together.
But there are other things to consider like past regrets or resentments.
If you are wondering what to do to "win your man back" the odds are your ex is thinking the exact same thing about you.
Be careful because sometimes that interest is only a game.
They want to test if you love them, and they may simply be trying to get any missed attention.
Worst of all he may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrongs he feels you were responsible for.
This is why it is important not to jump in with both feet, and why you should focus on the motives of the situation before you act to quickly.
This is common, and a lot of ladies find themselves in this position, but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act.
In reality, if your man does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (just a bit) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt or humiliated if he is just playing games.
And if getting back together is really meant to be it will now be clear.
Just take things slow, play it cool and listen to your heart.
With the skills I just handed you there will no reason you can not do this!