The reality of divorce is that YES it CAN be doom and gloom. Yes it is entirely possible that your divorce will drag on for months on end and will linger on through the court system and the process of going through 'contested litigation'.
The good news for you and for all of the other people who are going through divorce is that the chances of your divorce turning 'super ugly' are slim. There is a much stronger likelihood that your divorce is going to remain relatively peaceful and relatively calm and that you and your ex will be able to settle the case outside of court within just a few short months.
In order to help ensure that your divorce does remain relatively peaceful and calm, we have posted this article whereby you will find valuable information about keeping the divorce process simple. Below is a list of three tips that it is recommended that you follow:
Tip Number One: Communicate With Your Ex. So long as you and your ex will communicate with each other openly and honestly, things will remain relatively calm between the two of you and you will be able to hash out the details of the unresolved issues.
Tip Number Two: Pull No Surprises. Divorce is a very uncertain time. Do not add to the divorce uncertainty by pulling a surprise on your ex. This is especially true during the early stages of the divorce process.
Tip Number Three: Keep The Emotions In Check. If you want to settle, keep the emotions in check. Doing so will ensure that you remain level headed and that your ex remains level headed and then the two of you will be able to rationally, logically, discuss settlement.
Lastly, keep in mind that there is no 'full proof' way to ensurce that your divorce will not turn into one of the 'super ugly' cases, but so long as you will follow the advice shared above, you will increase the odds that your case will remain relatively peaceful and that you and your ex will be able to settle outside of court.